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• The Latest Marriage and Divorce Statistics
• Financial Implications of Death of a Partner
• Beyond the Death of a Child
Life after death presents twenty-four unique and captivating case studies of bereavement.
Bushfire Bereavement Support Services
The Latest Marriage and Divorce Statistics
On Monday 31st August 2009 ABS released statistics on marriages and divorces on Australia
Some snippets reported
• Median age of getting married has increased as is the median age for separation and support
Median age getting married - females from 22 yrs (1989) to 25.4 yrs (2008)
Median age getting married - males from 24.6 yrs (1989) to 27.8 yrs (2008)
Median age at separation - females from 32.3 yrs (1989) to 37.8 yrs (2008)
Median age at separation - males from 35.1 yrs (1989) to 40.5 yrs (2008)
Median age at divorce - females from 32.3 yrs (1989) to 37.8 yrs (2008)
Median age at divorce - males from 35.1 yrs (1989) to 40.5 yrs (2008)
That is, not only are Australians marrying at an older age, their marriages are increasing in length, while divorce rate has stayed relatively stable
• Proportion of all divorces involving children has been decreasing slowly while average number of children per divorce has been stable
Percentage of all divorces involving children - 55.3% (1989)
Percentage of all divorces involving children - 48.8% (2008)
• Analysis of the 2008 figures on median length of marriage to divorce by date shows:
TAS 14.3% - SA 13.4% - QLD12.8% - VIC 12.4% - NT 12.3% - ACT 12.3% - NSW 10.3%
NB Excluding the Territories, comparing the length of marriage to divorce against state populations, the smaller the state population it would appear the longer the length of marriage
• spring and autumn weddings are preferred everywhere across Australia, except the NT where the marriage season is winter.
Queensland prefers the winter ends of Spring and Autumn while Tasmania has higher rates at the summer ends of Spring and Autumn
• Marriage seasons are changing slightly over time, with a slightly lower proportion of marriages in winter while significantly higher rates of marriages in October and November compared to 20 years ago.
References: http://acl.asn.au/australian-marriage-statistics/
http://www.theage.com.au/national/marriages-at-20year-high-as-breakups-decline-20090831-f5a2.html
Other related links
http://www.abs.gov.au/AUSSTATS/abs@.nsf/0/26D94B4C9A4769E6CA25732C00207644?opendocument
Lifetime Marriage and Divorce Trends
http://www.women.nsw.gov.au/PDF/FS2007/Women_in_NSW_OFW%202007.pdf
Age and sex distribution Life expectancy Marriage and divorce
http://www.australianmarriageequality.com/news/20070810.htm
Australian Marriage Equality
Financial Implications of Death of a Partner
Research Report: Corden, A., Hirst, M. and Nice, K. (2008) Financial Implications of Death of a Partner, Social Policy Research Unit, University of York, York.

Authored by Anne Corden, Michael Hirst and Katharine Nice, this research report investigates the economic and financial consequences of bereavement for a surviving spouse or partner and their household, using a mixed methods, prospective design.

The study involves a quantitative element based on longitudinal analysis of the British Household Panel Survey, and a qualitative element comprising personal interviews with people at different life stages whose partner has died.

Among its key findings the study found that older women faced increased risk of persistent or recurrent poverty for two or three years after the death and that perceptions of adverse change in financial circumstances following a partner's death were related to increased psychological distress among women, for up to two years after the death.

The research will contribute to debate about personal responsibility for financial affairs, and institutional arrangements that shape the financial impact of bereavement.

For further details, including a link to download the report, please visit the:
Social Policy Research Unity at the University of York, UK

From the Grief Brief August 2009: newsletter published by the Australian Centre for Grief and Bereavement
Beyond the Death of a Child:
A Report into the Social and Economic Impacts following the death of a child

Parents are losing up to $600,000 in lost income and take, on average, sixteen weeks of unpaid leave following the death of their child, according to a new report. The report, Beyond the Death of a Child, identifies the social impacts and economic costs to families and the community during the first three years following the death of a child.

The Compassionate Friends Victoria commissioned the two year research study which commenced in October 2004.

Almost half (46%) of the 103 bereaved families interviewed incurred significant medical, hospital and other health related costs (including counselling) and over 70 per cent of these experienced moderate to extreme difficulty in meeting such expenses. One couple whose 21 year-old daughter was killed in a car accident had to stop counselling after just two sessions because of the costs. Only a reduced counselling charge and financial help from local churches allowed the counselling and other debts such as funeral costs to be met.

Of the 103 bereaved families interviewed for the report, 23 parents chose, or were forced, to resign from their employment following the death of a child. The periods of leave taken varied from a low of two weeks to a high of two years and eight months, with an average leave without pay of 15.5 weeks that cost family members around $8000 on average. Almost three quarters of the family members indicated that the impact on their work performance was very or extremely significant.

The report also put forward 20 recommendations directed to government and non-government bodies covering: bereavement support programs, economic costs, employment, education and research.

The report was undertaken by Dr Jon Stebbins and Dr Trevor Bartrouney, who between them have extensive experience in social research and working with bereaved families.

Emeritus Professor Dennis Klass of Webster University, St Louis, a leading researcher on bereavement, said of the report: "Beyond the death of a child is ground breaking. The study expands our understanding of the effects of a child's death well beyond the scope of the previous scholarly and clinical literature about bereaved parents and their families".

The authors of the report were Dr Jon Stebbins, D.Ed., Traumatic Bereavement Consultant & Researcher and Dr Trevor Batrouney, Adjunct Professor, RMIT University.

The report, Beyond the Death of a Child, identifies the social impacts and economic costs to families and the community during the first three years following the death of a child.

PDF downloads of extracts from the report are available below as well as an order form to purchase the full report.

For further information, including a link to download an order form for the full report or a summary of the report, refer to the following page
Beyond the death of a child research report.

From the Grief Brief August 2009: newsletter published by the Australian Centre for Grief and Bereavement
Life after death presents twenty-four unique and captivating case studies of bereavement.
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From the Grief Brief August 2009: newsletter published by the Australian Centre for Grief and Bereavement
Bushfire Bereavement Support Services
The Australian Centre for Grief and Bereavement continues to be actively involved in providing assistance to people who have been bereaved through the Victorian bushfires.
Following a six-week secondment to the Victorian Bushfire Reconstruction Authority (VBRA), Anne Giljohann, Manager of the ACGB Bereavement Counselling and Support Service, has returned to oversee the implementation of a number of new bereavement support initiatives.

We have been funded for 12-months to provide Bushfire Specialist Bereavement Counsellors in four of the fire-affected regions where there has been a particular request for additional assistance. The team of five counsellors, under the leadership of Annie Norrish, will operate from the Cobaw Community Health Centre (CHC) at Kyneton, the Mitchell CHC at Broadford, the Nillumbik CHC in Eltham and the Latrobe CHC in Gippsland.

In addition, funding has been approved for 18-months to provide 12 support groups for adults bereaved through the bushfires. These groups will be located in fire-affected locations and metropolitan areas, in accordance with the requests of people wishing to attend. The first of these groups have already met in the Kinglake area. A brochure detailing these Bushfire Discussion and Support Groups can be downloaded here.

While on secondment to VBRA, Anne Giljohann prepared a document entitled Bushfire discussion and support groups for people who have lost someone close to them: Information for professionals. This document, which has been published by the Department of Human Services (VIC), outlines the principles underpinning the bushfire support group program and considers issues such as:

- What is a support group?
- Support groups not therapy groups
- How can discussion/support groups help?
- Style and format of the groups
- The role of facilitators
- Recruitment and support of facilitators
- Partnerships with local agencies
- Role of the bushfire support groups  
coordinator
- Intake/triage
- Administrative support
- Evaluation
- Establishing groups
- Advertising the groups, and
- Location and timing of groups.

A copy of this document is available here.

It is hoped that funding will also be made available to establish groups for people who are seriously affected but not bereaved, as well as the possibility of groups for children if these are required.

ACGB staff have also been active providing a series of one-day training programs for over 300 Case Managers working with the Victorian Bushfire Case Management Service. This training has considered contemporary approaches to understanding traumatic bereavement, case studies of complex bereavement, assessment of resiliency and risk, support and intervention and compassion fatigues and self-care.

Remember that details on a range of bushfire specific services can be found on our dedicated web page located here.